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Upcoming Events You Won’t Want to Miss
by Vanessa Cerillo
Sure you may have lost an hour of sleep this past Sunday thanks to daylight savings time, but you’re an hour closer to the next party with a purpose!
March 12
Jackson & Connor, Impish
Thorne’s Marketplace
Jackson & Connor is turning 1 and what better way to celebrate than with the NAYP?! On March 12, Jackson & Connor, along with its next-door neighbor, Impish are pulling out all the stops – this is party with a purpose and lots of favors! Stop by the second floor of Thorne’s Marketplace between 5 and 8 and get into the groove with DJ Hush, relaaaxxxx with a free five-minute massage courtesy of Sonja Sweeney, cop an original James Anthony Silk Screen T for just $5 (bring your own t-shirt!), and enjoy fresh local food and drink courtesy of Northampton favorite, Paul & Elizabeth’s. And don’t forget to immortalize the awesome time you’re having with $1 photo booth pictures or a one of kind caricature by Alex. Sponsored by Goggins Real Estate. Seriously, I’m asking these ladies to plan my next birthday party!
April 16
Cooley Dickinson Hospital
Like many of you, I suspect, I was born at Cooley Dickinson Hospital. On April 16, I’ll have the chance to rediscover my humble beginnings with the NAYP when Cooley Dickinson hosts a Party with a Purpose. It will be a new experience for most of us, entering a hospital all in one piece, but it’s a good idea to know your way around in case your next visit doesn’t include tasty snacks and cocktails. Hospital staff will be on hand to talk about everything that goes on in a hospital from community outreach to the incredible new technology they use every day to help the people in our community. Ask questions, find out how you can volunteer (hello, candy striper uniforms!), and learn about some of the special services and that the hospital offers. Consider it a salute to the beloved NBC drama ER, whose 15-season run comes to an end on April 2. I’ll be raising a glass to whoever cast John Stamos in the role of Tony Gates.
May 7
Caminito Argentinean Steakhouse
Sure it still feels a long way off, but the mere thought of a warm spring evening spent on the patio of Caminito Argentinean Steakhouse, just might get me through the snowstorm we are bound to have sometime in April. On Thursday May 7th Caminito will open its patio with a Party with a Purpose. The evening will feature live Argentinean music and a cooking demonstration – just in time for grilling season!

Hotel Northampton
And in June, the NAYP continues the outdoor theme, with a patio party at the Hotel Northampton. Stay tuned for more information on that and all the great fun we’ve got planned for later this summer.
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Spotlight on: Kat Lovell, CHT
by Holly Young
I met Kat Lovell at her downtown Northampton office located on Center Street between the Iron Horse and Gazebo Lingerie. She has occupied the same warm and inviting space since 2005. Upon entering, Kat welcomes me with a smile and requests that I take off my shoes. Two long windows with sheer curtains diffuse the light that reflects off the blond, hardwood floors, flanked by two couches and a large easy chair. I immediately feel safe and relaxed. I release a sigh and unclench my shoulders. I am not there for a session with Kat, but I wish I were. The space is perfectly conducive to Kat’s work: hypnotherapy.
Research shows hypnosis can literally re-write a past event– if the client is willing. By taking a situation and re-working it, Kat can supplant old reactions and feelings that are getting in the way of current-life. Two or more opposing feelings we may have and not be aware of can hinder us from achieving financial success, fulfilling relationships, weight-loss, or whatever the goal may be. Once these unconscious feelings are uncovered they can be traced back to their root cause. The root cause is usually an old idea or event from a long time ago; for instance, perhaps growing up our wealthy neighbors had loud family arguments on the lawn and that has caused us to subconsciously pair financial success with an unhappy family life. Kat can address and re-integrate the feelings so that they are in-line with what we want to achieve. Hypnosis can bridge a path back to the root event of a feeling’s creation and replace feelings that are hindering us with those that empower us.
Hypnosis’s most popular uses are for weight loss, smoking cessation, and stress reduction. However, Kat also uses hypnosis for healing past trauma; anxiety; hypnobirthing- the goal being a natural, calm, and gentle birth without drugs; insomnia; letting go of a relationship, such as a break-up or divorce; and fertility hypnosis. Kat’s latest work has been on prosperity consciousness, which teaches clients how to thrive financially despite the current bleak financial climate.
As a Certified Fertility Hypnosis Therapist, Kat helps couples conceive. In nearly 70% of cases where a woman cannot get pregnant there is no medically diagnosed reason why fertilization is not occurring-it just isn’t. Many couples try in-vitro fertilization (IVF) that can cost upwards of $15,000 for each attempt and has only a 15 to 20% success rate. With hypnosis, however, that rate increases to 45 to 60%. On a conscious level, all a woman knows is that she wants a child, Kat says. However, there might be other forces at work. Kat spoke of a client who, at three years old left her doll outside overnight. The next day, her mother brought the doll into her all wet and muddy. “How will you ever be a good mother if this is how you treat your doll?” her mother admonished her. At that age, Kat explained, we don’t have the same filters that we do now. Unconsciously, the woman believed that she would not be a responsible parent-she might leave her baby out in the rain. There was an unconscious part of her that was causing her body to reject the pregnancy. Kat says, “If people came to me as a first resort and not their last, it would save them a lot of energy, time, and money.” And she means this for other goals as well, not just fertility.
Kat often works in conjunction with therapists, psychologists, and social workers to help clients achieve the next level of transformation. These modalities seek to help us through talking therapy. In talking therapy we learn about our behaviors. We become aware of how to change our behavior and may develop a sincere desire to change it. Nevertheless, we are often unable to make the leap of actual change. Not everything can be dealt with on a conscious level. That is where hypnosis can be another helpful and complimentary step in the therapeutic process.
Every behavior we engage in, whether destructive or productive, has its pay-off, Kat explains. The cigarette smoker gets his 15 minutes of relaxation every hour-and-a-half, the overweight woman has her emotional defense mechanism around her, and the stressed-out individual gets his fix of drama and chaos. They are conscious of the myriad negative impacts of these behaviors, perhaps they’ve even been instructed by a doctor to change, but they lack the willingness to change. On a subconscious level weight loss means becoming vulnerable to heartache, stress reduction means giving up an addictive form of pleasure, and smoking cessation– a loss of an important coping mechanism. We are literally fighting ourselves in our efforts. Through hypnosis, Kat helps develop our willingness to make these changes and to deal with the fallout that comes as a result.
Hypnosis works on the level of the unconscious. At that level our minds do not distinguish between fantasy and reality. This is what makes hypnosis such a powerful, effective, and lasting tool. It can re-program the old tapes in our heads that say “I can’t” to new ones that say “I can”. Kat has sessions available by appointment and will hold them individually or in small groups. She can be reached at 413-585-1582 or kat@createyourchange.com. More information can be found on her website: www.createyourchange.com
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Resume Writing Tips
by Christina Johnson
Your resume is often the first impression that a future employer has of you. It presents an overview of what you have done in the past and implies what you can do for that employer in the future.
There are no official rules for designing and constructing a resume but the following are some guidelines that may help you.
- Your professional objective (if you decide to include one) indicates the functional area in which you want to work so be sure that everything in your resume supports it and nothing contradicts it.
- Keep your target market in mind. Ask yourself: If I were the employer, would I interview this person?
- Describe specific responsibilities and highlight accomplishments using positive language to describe results.
- Qualify or quantify your accomplishments whenever possible.
- Summarize early employment by briefly describing your function.
- Highlight your work history selectively, specifically drawing attention to what the company is looking for. Sometimes this means spending 50% of your description on something that only occupied 20% of your time.
- Do not include anything that will raise doubts or cause you to be screened out. Instead this information can be discussed during an interview.
- Do not list references. They should be reserved for the interview or when directly asked.
- If you have been out of school five years or more do not overemphasize your educational background, instead focus on your work experience.
- Do not leave any gaps between employment dates. List jobs by year rather than month.
- Never include personal information such as age, marital status, number of children, etc.
- Do not exaggerate your experience or misrepresent yourself. The truth tends to come out in the interview anyways.
- Begin sentences or phrases with action words instead of using “I”.
- Use the present tense to describe your current or most recent job. Use the past tense for any previous jobs or if describing something that has already been accomplished or implemented.
- Write out all numbers up to and including the number nine and then use numerals for all numbers after that (except at the beginning of a sentence).
- Use a direct, active writing style. Use short phrases rather than complete sentences.
- Use key words and phrases appropriate to the job you are applying to. Hiring managers search for key words that match the company’s needs. It is also common that your resume is scanned into a computer which looks for key words. If you don’t use certain words your resume may never be seen by a person.
- Do not use abbreviations (i.e. HR for human resources).
- Use capital letters, dashes, underlining, or bullets to emphasize certain items.
- Keep the resume to one or two pages. Include your name, phone number, and a page number on your second page in case the pages become separated. Also, make sure that all of your key selling points appear on the first page.
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Facebook and NAYP combine! Over the last month NAYP has recruited more than 100 new members to its Facebook group (Northampton Area Young Professionals). We hope to see the awareness and event attendance rise as a result. If every NAYP member added just five of their friends to this group, we would be at over 700 online members. Pictures, event updates and reminders will be sent out via Facebook so that we can communicate to the maximum amount of prospective and current members. So- boot up, log on and please support us in our endeavor to spread the word about our growing organization!
~ Amelia Reniszewski
“Group Guru”
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